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Feels like a Monday

Posted By on September 12, 2016

I try to come up with a new title for each entry. The only ones that are repeats are birthdays, anniversaries, or other major life events that I mark almost every year.

This morning I thought I had a good title and I went to save only to find that I had used it before. Well shoot, I thought and, after a little thought, put in the next title that came to mind. That one had been used also. Apparently I am in repeats. Eventually I came to this title and haven’t used it before.

And honestly this is the first Monday that has felt like a Monday in a while. Part of it may be Caroline going back to school and we have that routine.

This Monday finds me trying to sort some stuff out and figuring out the rest of the week. Peter is off to a convention at the end of the week and the next week is Peter’s 60th birthday. If you care to send a card, you can send one to Box 951 Bayport NY 11705 and I will give them to him on his birthday.

For his birthday, we are going to the Ren Faire on probably the 24th. Open invitation to join us if you would like. More on that when plans solidify.

I think I am going to be able to put up most of the suitcases that have been living in the hall since convention going is reducing to just Peter for a while.

I have a number of things I need/want to do but I am limited by the amount of time that my knee wants to cooperate. Stairs and I aren’t getting along well. The knee is getting a little bit better every day but still not at 100 %. I am very frustrated about this.

Ok off to the first thing on the list and then to work my way down it.

I am grateful that the knee is getting better and I finally got four hours of sleep without waking up every half hour because the knee/leg hurt.

RTBTCKI 15 years Ago

Posted By on September 11, 2016

I am going to talk about the events that happened 15 years ago today. I give everyone and anyone a free pass to not read what I am writing.

15 years ago was a Tuesday. I went into work at Del Rey like usual. It was a crisp clear day with a feeling of fall in the air. There was one point in the train ride into the city and only at that point I could see the Twin Towers which I did that day. They looked pretty against the stark blue sky. That was the last time I saw them standing with my eye.

When the first plane hit, we thought it was a small plane and didn’t think much of it. The promotions department turned on their TV which was the only on the floor. I put on NPR on my computer. It was terrible that the plane had crashed into the Tower. We had no idea what was going to happen next.

The second plane hit the second tower about 15 minutes later. By that point we knew something was seriously wrong. Most of the floor was crowed into marketing and promotions. I stuck to my NPR feed which about 20 minutes later talked about a plane crashing into the Pentagon. Then an hour and half almost from the initial hit, a plane crashed in Pennsylvania rather than into the Capitol building which was its target.

The city shut down for a time. There was no in or out. Traffic was stopped. Various departments at Ballentine books were scrambling to find places for people to stay overnight.

I was trying to find out what happened to one of our editors who had flown out for a book conference that morning. His wife contacted me via email that he was safe and stuck in the Midwest as every plane in the country was grounded.

Cell phones were pretty much useless because most of the cell towers were on top of the twin towers. I managed to get a call to Peter that I was OK before the cell service vanished. I don’t remember if I got in touch with my mother via phone or email, all I know is that I did tell her I was fine.

My computer feed to NPR was the only one on the floor so people were coming by and listening to the news. Radio was also on top of the twin towers.

Eventually they re-opened the subway system to go out of Manhattan. You could come in if you were a first responder but those personal were the only ones allowed in.

It was a long walk to the subway since only a few lines were open and none that went through Wall Street. I went with the Del Rey Art Director and his very pregnant wife. We managed to squeeze onto a train that would take us to Jamaica where we could get a train out to our places on the Island.

I got home and hugged Peter and the girls.

I didn’t go back in for a week.

The long term for me of what happened that day was that I lost a job that I dearly loved due to what happened to the economy afterwards.

We talk about events that change our lives. What happened to me 15 years ago is something that I am never going to forget. Like my parents never forgot where they were when JFK was shot.

Interestingly it is history to Caroline. She was not even a twinkle in her father’s eye when it happened.

Since then I have tried to do a good deed on this day or this week in memory of all those who didn’t make it through the day and all those who were effected by it.

15 years seems like a long time but it still feels like yesterday as well.

I am going to stay off the Internet and the local channels today. I am going to do laundry and take care of things around my house. I am going to live my life as normally as I can for those who can no longer do it.

I am grateful for getting home that day fifteen years ago.

Getting Back into the Routine

Posted By on September 10, 2016

This is the first weekend of this school year. Caroline has been in school for four days or two A days and two B days. That gives her a taste of what the year will be like. She has her early impressions of what she likes and doesn’t like this year. I have been trying to convince her to give it a month before she forms her opinions.

Peter and I are trying to get back into our fall routine. There are still some bits and pieces of the convention season in the corners of the living room that need to be dealt with.

I am going to be working through some projects that I have back burnered. I am going to have an outfit for NYCC based on a character Peter created. I have to figure out how I am going to make some parts but it should be pretty easy if I can find the right fabric.

I did have a very nice birthday.

Caroline and Peter baked me a cake and Peter made the buttercream frosting that I so love. The cake is wonderful.

I assembled my Lego Dr. Strange Sanctum Sanctorum and found it was missing a piece. I do love that Lego has on its website an easy way to report the missing piece and get a replacement. The tentacle creature to the right has mechanics behind the wall that moves the tentacles. The Ancient one and Mordo are on levers that allow you to make them float. Overall it was one of the most complicated sets I have seen from Lego and the “magic” tricks are very clever.

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(For the VI: This is my assembled Lego set. Dr. Strange figure is all the way to the left. The Ancient One is on the left side of the table in the middle. Mordo is on the right side of the table. All the way to the right is a red tentacle monster pushing through a portal.)

We spend the evening watching Star Trek and reading comic books. Caroline had a bit of a backlog since she was out of town for almost a month. My inner fangirl was very happy.

I have talked about our two cats Fig and Inky who were both found in our front yard as kittens. Fig is now six and Inky is two. Here’s a photo to get an idea of their sizes. Inky would have been bigger but her growth was stunted by her lack of food before we started feeding her.

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(For the VI: This is a photo of our two cats. Inky is at the top of the photo and she is mostly white with black spots. Fig is at the bottom and she is mostly black with a white underbelly)

Today is limited for several reasons including that my knee, which had been on the mend, seems to have flared up again but it is as much in my knee but my shin and ankle. Hip hurts too so I am babying it. It was a lousy night’s sleep for me over all since I could not find a comfortable position so I dosed until about 3 AM then got up until 5. I read to tire out my eyes. It was not much better but I did managed to put together two hours before I gave up again. I feel bone weary and brain foggy. Peter and Caroline are picking up my slack, which I am very grateful for.

So I will do what I can do. I will muddle forward. I will survive.

I am grateful for such wonderful presents and birthday wishes. It made me feel loved and appreciated.

On the Occasion of my 53rd Birthday

Posted By on September 9, 2016

Peter and Caroline are baking me a cake. We have some nice activities planned.

Caroline gave me my birthday card this morning.

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(for the VI: Across the top are the words Happy Birthday Mommy in script. She drew me on the left and her on the right. I am hugging her.)

And I got some cool presents. The 221b lithograph was what my parents got for me. The Dr. Strange legos and the Labyrinth pops are from Peter.

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(for the VI: At the top of the photo is a box of Legos. In the middle is a lithograph of the front door from Sherlock. At the bottom are two boxes of Funko Pops. On the left is Jareth and the right is Sarah and the worm)

For those who have read this web log less than a year, I write myself a letter each year that I open on my birthday and then write one for next year. Here is the public part of the letter for this year.

Dear Kath,

Well that was a year wasn’t it. A lot of ups and downs and ups and downs.

We have learned that one can do too many conventions in a row. It is possible to go to Disneyland and DisneyWorld within a week of each other.

We learned that we are better at building puppets and costumes than we thought we were. We learned that others appreciate our efforts.

We made new friends and saw old friends.

The gym was more consistent this year and how you feel is in direct correlation to that so let’s keep that up.

You walked through the White House and saw Pandas in three zoos along with lots of other adventures.

This next year I plan to finish the novel I owe, put up a puppet website so I can sell my wares, and make some dolls which I haven’t done in a couple of years.

Be kind to yourself and allow a moment or two to breath.

Let’s get to 54 intact.

love
Kath

Suicide Prevention week 2016

Posted By on September 8, 2016

Apparently this week (September 5th to September 11th) is Suicide Prevention Week.

This might get a little heavy for some and may cause others to be uncomfortable and for some I know this is a major real trigger.

So I am warning for a frank and unsugar coated entry about suicide.

I will, however, put this behind a cut so I don’t upset people.

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