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President’s Day 2018

Posted By on February 19, 2018

I learned something today.

President’s day use to be called George Washington Day and was celebrated on February 22nd which is the day of Washington’s birth. Then in 1971 under the Uniform Monday Holiday act which gave federal workers 3 day weekends rather than specific calendar days off, it moved to Monday in celebration of both Lincoln (February 12th) and Washington’s birthdays. It was still called Washington’s Birthday but slid to President’s Day over the years.

Caroline has her winter break this week so she is home enjoying being home rather than traveling or in school.

We are in the ‘can I get it done’ part of our lives. I have several deadlines that some are hard deadlines and other soft deadlines. So I am off to being the long list of THINGS THAT MUST BE DONE! with breaks to spend time with my daughter.

I am grateful that Caroline had some time to regroup.

That was a quick weather front

Posted By on February 18, 2018

Last night we had rain and hail and sleet and snow.

This morning there are some signs on snow in any area that is in shadows and it is getting up to 50 today.

Apparently the car cover was the talisman that kept the south shore free of snow.

We have been watching the Harry Potter marathon that HBO is showing this weekend. It is interesting seeing these films in order again especially watching the children age into the adults they are now.

Today Caroline is going to walk into town to meet up with her friends for pizza and then the library. I like that I live in a place were I have no worries about my kid walking into town and meeting up with friends.

I am going to clean up my worktable and start on my next project that I hope to have done by this time next week. At least I can go outside to glue things together. I think I am going to put a couple of bodies together for whatever to have them ready to go when I need them.

Other things need to be done as well but I need to start somewhere.

I am grateful for weather systems that don’t impede my day.

Blustery Weather Ahead, Batten Down the Hatches?

Posted By on February 17, 2018

And again I awake to a totally different weather report from when I went to sleep.

Apparently this storm is going to start earlier in the day and be more rain than snow on the coast.

So that is making me rethink what I need to do before this afternoon.

Covering the car is a must because that way we will be ready for whatever. And my superstitious side reminds myself that the one time I didn’t cover the car because I thought it was going to be nothing, we got 6 inches of snow which was a pain to get off of the car.

Caroline is sleeping in because she can since it is her winter break. She did a happy dance because her teachers did not assign her homework over the break. She plans to get ahead on a couple of projects that are due within the next month or so. I love my kid and her ability to get things done.

Peter has a cold that is kicking his rump pretty hard. He has managed to get his contract writing done but not as much on the other things he is working on. I am checking and he is not running a fever and he can breath so not flu.

The cats are having another round of kitty politics. Fig is having none of it and thwaping the other two if they try to engage her. Inky is finding places to sit so Mewlan cannot sneak up behind her and bite her on the rear. Mewlan is being a crazy kitten and wants to play. She doesn’t understand that the other two don’t.

I am going into storm mode and trying to get everything done today that I was going to do outside this weekend so if the weather stinks tomorrow, I don’t have a bunch of ‘if I had only’ running through my head.

I noticed that I am more than half way through the month and so far I managed to say something each day. I’ll take my little victories where I can.

I am grateful for the prediction of less snow if everything goes our way.

Happy Chinese New Year! It’s the year of the Dog

Posted By on February 16, 2018

Gong hei fat choy y’all.

In China, this is a three day holiday that seems to get stretched into two weeks. Anyone doing business in China is now at a stand still until after the celebration is done.

Here in America we haven’t turned it into another reason to drink. I am surprised that the liquor companies haven’t figured out an angle on this one yet.

Some of my friends take this holiday as their shiny reset button for resolutions and the like that didn’t happen and give it another go.

We apparently have some snow headed our direction. When I went to bed last night the models they were showing gave our area a 1” to 3” possibility with warming to quickly follow. I woke up this morning to the possibility of 4” to 7” depending on where a pressure system decided to land. I am basically ready for either reality.

Caroline has her winter break this next week but she is going to go to robotics over that time. She is just happy that we aren’t traveling next week and she can have some time at home to possibly see her friends depending on what they have scheduled. I swear all these kids are scheduled to the nth degree.

Personally I am going to use today to get a few things off my list and make sure we have everything we need for the next couple of days.

I am grateful for happy cats.

Can we GD talk about it NOW!?!?!?

Posted By on February 15, 2018

This is one of my rare posts that touches upon the political landscape of my country. Feel free to skip and we will go back to the usual rambling tomorrow.

Last night I woke up in a cold sweat with pieces of a dream running around in my brain. I remember arguing with Caroline who really didn’t like her school uniform which now added a Kevlar vest and riot helmet with face shield to it. “It chafes,” she complained. “Wear it,” I said. “Why? I look stupid.” “Because I am your mother and I said so.” “Fine!” along with the teenage door slam. Then I woke up.

I know why I had this dream. Because some kid took a semi-automatic rifle into a high school and pulled the fire alarm then proceeded to kill 17 people and critically injuring a number of others. I will proceed to call this idiot the shooter because he has lost any worthiness of a name. Let it be forgotten.

We will hear about the why of this and people will give us the reasons for the shooter’s behavior. We already know that the shooter’s mother called on the police several times to ‘talk sense’ into him. We know the shooter was obsessed with guns and even brought them to school with him, which will become one of the reasons he had been expelled from the high school. He had problems. All the signs were there. We are going to hear about his mental health issues and the like over the coming weeks.

We are also going to hear about those who died like Athletic director Chris Hixon who was 49. We are going to hear about the brave football coach who was also a security guard at the school named Aaron Feis who jump in front of students to protect them from the shooter. He is being treated for his injuries but no one knows if he is going to survive.

You know what we are NOT going to hear about? Any form of restrictions of guns and gun parts. We live in a nation where a gun has more rights than a human being. Apparently somewhere along the way it was decided that guns are more important than people.

And again it was an AR-15 semi-automatic rifle that took so many lives. I will never understand why we need military grade hardware in our homes.

I understand hunting rifles for killing game that then gets eaten. One rather lean year my roommates and I only source of protein was deer meat that a friend had shot and cleaned then gave us the meat to eat. Pistols for target practice I am fine with. I have shot guns on ranges.

Side note, one of the times I was in England and staying with a friends, their roommate got a call from his mother who was a bit worked up because the police had come by the house. She had thought something horrible had happened to his dad who worked at a bank. No, they had come by to talk to her about his father’s application for a gun permit to keep a pistol at a local shooting range for target practice.

Semi-automatic rifles are no good for hunting as you would tear up the animal to a point that it would be useless to try to eat. The only thing they are good for is killing people. That is what they are designed for. To kill people and boy howdy do they do a good job. Most of the recent mass shootings here have included that gun. Las Vegas had that gun and something called a bump stock that allowed it to go from semi to full automatic.

I don’t want to start the conversation. I want something done on a federal level that makes school shootings a rare thing rather than hearing ‘there has been another school shooting’ and learning about the potential that has been snuffed out because cold pieces of metal are more important then warm bodies of our young. And putting metal detectors in our schools is NOT the answers. More security is NOT the answer. Better mental health care might help but it is NOT the answer.

Let’s tell our representatives that we are mad as hëll and not going to take this any more. If they are in the pockets of the NRA, vote them the fûçk out. Let’s get candidates that aren’t afraid or beholden to the gun lobby and get something as simple as background checks and mental health checks in place before someone can even buy a gun. Make a paper trail of where each gun goes including private sales and gun shows. Have firearms registered with the local constabulary so they know who had firearms. Make the penalties for not doing so at the minimum losing the gun(s) with no compensation and never be allowed to purchase a gun again.

There are lots of ways to do without ‘taking away the guns’.

And yes I am for getting this military hardware off the streets of my country. It serves no purpose but to kill other citizens.

Oh the shooter legally owned all his firearms. No back alley buying on this one.

I am grateful that last night I could hug my daughter and she could hug me back.