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Happy Birthday to My Sister Sheila 2018 edition

Posted By on June 14, 2018

Short one today with an explanation of why I have been quiet soon but I couldn’t let the day go by without wishing my sister Sheila a Happy Birthday.

I love my sister. Have since the day I met her in my mother’s arms. She was so small but with a set of lungs that would not quit.

And that’s the thing about my sister, she doesn’t quit. There have been some very large roadblocks at times in her life but she has worked to overcome them.

She is an amazing writer and artist.

She is a good storyteller, which does run in the family as does the love of bad puns and shaggy dog stories.

I believe in her.

So Happy Birthday Sheila! Hope the day was very nice to you.

Love your big sister,

Kath.

Suicide I survived

Posted By on June 10, 2018

Warning: Behind the cut is an essay about suicide, depression, and other topics that aren’t particularly happy or fun.

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Harry Potter and the Very Long Day

Posted By on June 8, 2018

In the first wave of ticket sales for Harry Potter and the Cursed Child, we scored tickets for a Wednesday where you can see both parts in the same day with a short break in between. This was back in November 2017 and the tickets we obtained were for Wednesday June, 6th, 2018.

A month out Peter started getting emails from the theater about what to expect and what the rules were going to be. Tickets could be picked up three days before performance and the person picking up the tickets must be the person who bought the tickets online. No large bags. Arrive one hour before the show to get through security. No recording or photos during the performance. They gave us the length of each play and a set of restaurants in the area. Over the four weeks, they gave us a lot of information.

Day of we had a plan of attack that depended on clockwork precision without a time turner if something screwed up. We plotted different routes into the city. We picked up Caroline from school so she could get as much in the day as possible and off to the city we went. And ran into traffic of course. Much of it we were able to get around thanks to the HOV lane but in the end we had to suffer through the mess that is the Queens Midtown tunnel which is under construction so they shut down various parts of it to continue the work. Within the city, we got caught in traffic in midtown that seems to always be there.

We did make it to lunch with time to spare then onto the theater scoring some of the last spots with places to lean against the wall leading into the theater. Security got us in very efficiently and we found seats for the half hour wait for the doors to open to the theater.

Once into the theater we were happy to see that our seats were just behind and aisle so we knew we would have an unobstructed view.

We settled in and were ready to be entertained.

All three of us had read the rehearsal script but not the final one. They tightened the show up quite a bit from the original script.

Anthony Boyle (Scorpius Malfoy) was the stand out for me because the character was so flat in the script but his acting brought it to life with such an incredible performance that he has my vote for the Tony if I could vote for the Tony. I enjoyed Sam Clemens (Albus Potter) and Jamie Parker (Harry Potter) and thought they had good chemistry as a father and son that have problems communicating but still love each other. Paul Thornley (Ron) and Noma Dumezweni (Hermione) were given a difficult task from the get go but are up to the challenge. Mr. Thornley’s Ron was the book Ron all grown up with that goofy way of looking at life still firmly in place. Ms. Dumezweni was given the challenge to make this character her own rather than a reflection of the films. She does so admirably. I loved how she played the role and, considering some of the twists within the show, the range she shows is a thing of beauty. Alex Price (Draco Malfoy) was given the task to make us actually care what has happened and what happens to Draco and he succeeds. Poppy Miller (Ginny) does a good job with what she was given but the writing of that character is probably one of the weakest in the script. There are other characters in the show that the actors were amazing in but I consider those spoilers so just know that the cast is awesome.

Set design was smart and the way that they change things around seems to be the current Broadway standard (think Hamilton) with minimalism. Costumes were pretty minimalist as well but did the job they needed to do.

One aspect I really liked is that the magic tricks were not over used. Any magic used was within the script and we would go a while between the uses of magic. Those that were there were amazing. I think my favorite was the use of the time turner, which lead to some amazing effects. The day after we got a message from the company with a video from JK Rowling asking us to be their secret keeper and let others enjoy the play the same way we dd. So I am going to do as she asks and not discuss specifics of what I saw and figured out.

We were entertained and amazed by the show. The end of the first part made us glad that we were under the balcony because it was very scary.

Dinner did not quite work out the way we wanted but we rolled with that slight blip.

I would like to say thank you publicly to the security team that is overseeing security at the show. They were polite and professional. They got Peter a chair when standing got too much for him and made sure that everyone knew what was going on. Blarney the bomb-sniffing dog was working very hard when he was on duty but a big ol’ puppy when on break.

We entered the theater efficiently for part two and returned to our seats.

Part two was as good if not better than part one. By the end all questions were answers and some incredible magic effects were seen. The ending was very satisfying and if that the last time I see these characters I am very happy with how they were sent off.

In the end I think that we were wise to see it in one shot but know that it is a very long day. We entered the theater at 1:30 in the afternoon and finally exited at about 10:30 with a break in between. That’s a lot of show to process.

I do think it is worth seeing.

I am going to be interested if they are going to do a bus and truck and if they can do all the effects we saw on the road.

I am grateful we got to see these plays with the original Broadway cast.

Fandom Fails Hard

Posted By on June 6, 2018

Kelly Marie Tran is an actress who played the character Rose Tico in Star Wars: The Force Awakens. Her character played an important part of the film and I am looking forward to the next one and what happens to that character.

Ms. Tran has been active on the various social media platforms and, according to people who have met her, a delight to talk to.

I have no idea exactly what happened and I really don’t care to look and see. What I do know is that Ms. Tran pulled herself off of social media due to fan bullying. Even worse it was Star Wars fan bullying.

Some of the puppets I have made over the years and given to various actors and actresses are what I call my apology puppets. I am apologizing for the less than stellar members of fandom who are very vocal and can’t seem to see the line that they crossed into being bullies. I want to give the actor a visual symbol that we are all not like that. Most of fandom is really nice.

However there is a vocal minority that screw it up for the rest of us. I really don’t understand how people get pleasure from tearing down that which they profess to love. I have seen it in so many fandoms over the years.

Peter tells fans that come up to him and say, “You probably don’t remember me…” that it’s a good thing that he doesn’t. A majority of fans are awesome and kind and so many other positive adjectives. Those that he clearly remembers have done something that makes them memorable but not for the right reasons. There are a few that we remember for a good thing that they did but that’s few and far between.

We talk about bullying a lot these days in many situations. I think the internet has made it easier for bullying to happen and it can be more far reaching than one thinks.

Some actors I know stay off of social media because they know how toxic it can get. They have been informed that they might want to re-think it because social media is the in thing for promoting whatever they are working on or charities they are passionate about or projects that friends are doing. I think they are smart. Their fans bìŧçh about the fact that they are not on social media so they can’t ‘follow’ them. Follow them by watching their work. Read or watch interviews if one wants to know more about an actor.

I know a number of writers and artist who spend time on the Internet and are pretty accessible. They promote their works and talk to fans. Some have forums or web pages you can go to and actually talk to them. I also know a number that have decided that they don’t need the agita from interacting with people who say they are fans but then proceed to just complain about the creator’s work and have left their social media presence or delegated it to others. There are some that say that they are dropping out of the Internet so they can go and get some work done.

A prime example of this is the number of people pounding on GRR Martin about the next book in Game of Thrones that has been delayed quite a bit. He is in a catch 22 on this book since the TV series is wrapping things up their way this next year. So there will be an ending and his will be compared to it. He cannot win which makes it hard to finish.

Understand that I came from fandom. I was and still am a fan of Star Wars and Star Trek and Dr. Who and Sherlock Holmes and….well the list is very long. I have never and would never told someone that they suck or I don’t understand why they think they can do whatever. I try to be positive even when I might not agree with the direction something I like is going. But it is not my story but the creator’s story and I go along for the ride. As a writer, I hope that people who read my work are willing to see what I am doing and give me the chance to entertain them.

But there is a vocal toxic minority making it harder for other fans to be heard and that troubles me. Makes me, in some cases, sad to be a fan of whatever because those people color how the creators see fandom.

I am grateful to fans who show fandom at its best.

Good Grief, It is June 1st !?!?!?

Posted By on June 1, 2018

Now into the sixth month of the year. Where does the time go?

Peter is driving to a convention in Niagara Falls on the Canadian side. Packing him up was not hard since we had so much still packed from last weekend. A little re-arranging and he was ready to go.

Caroline is working through the end of the year before exams start.

I am going to try to get the house back in order from the last convention so I can get some serious work done on the first set of puppets this weekend.

Caroline and I have declared it anime weekend so I am pulling some of my favorites to show her including Vampire Hunter D.

I am typing this on my iPad with the keyboard since Peter needed my computer for the weekend for a project he needs to get done. It feels a little weird but nice to know that it does work and I can type on it.

Inky has curled up next to me. She was purring but is now sound asleep. Peter says she feels safe there because she knows I will keep the other cats from jumping on her.

Off to do things that must be done and need to be done and I want to do.

I am grateful that we have packing down to a fine art.