{"id":7620,"date":"2020-12-13T07:19:17","date_gmt":"2020-12-13T12:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/?p=7620"},"modified":"2020-12-13T07:19:17","modified_gmt":"2020-12-13T12:19:17","slug":"proposal-bring-back-shunning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/2020\/12\/13\/proposal-bring-back-shunning\/","title":{"rendered":"Proposal: Bring Back Shunning"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I really don\u2019t mind that my body is getting me up early.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Give me some quiet time before really starting my day and allows me to sort my thoughts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, I have seen some splendid sunrises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have been thinking and I believe we need to bring shunning back into vogue.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Shun (verb)- persistently avoid, ignore, or reject (someone or something) through antipathy or caution. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tend to shun people and things out of caution and for my wellbeing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There was a time that I tried to be all inclusive because I knew what it was like to be shut out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was a young fan, the science-fiction and fantasy community bent over backwards to include all fen (fans).&nbsp;&nbsp;We had been the other until we found fandom and a group that we were a part of.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now fandom is mainstream and people no longer hide their love of things that were nerd territory back in the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The difficulty with this is that in including all, there were people who were problematic for a variety of reasons including predatory behavior. Until recently there were always excuses as to why these individuals were allowed to remain. They played on everyone\u2019s sympathies and feelings isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There were some that went so far over the line that fandom shunned them. They were not allowed into conventions or go to meetings of the various clubs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With the internet, it is easier for like-minded folks to find each other and create their little worlds which has both positives and negatives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have this new thing of cancel culture which is destroying lives and careers sometimes based on something that they wrote when they were underaged. It is not a good thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I propose that we stop cancelling and start shunning.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am grateful for beautiful sunrises.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I really don\u2019t mind that my body is getting me up early.&nbsp; Give me some quiet time before really starting my day and allows me to sort my thoughts. Also, I have seen some splendid sunrises. I have been thinking and I believe we need to bring shunning back into vogue.&nbsp; Shun (verb)- persistently avoid, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7620"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7621,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7620\/revisions\/7621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kathwp.malibulist.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}