When I can\u2019t really talk about what I want to talk about.<\/p>\n
I learned at an early age of the Internet that what one says on the Internet doesn\u2019t go away as much as one thinks it might. <\/p>\n
Then I got involved with Peter which changed the parameters again. He was in the middle of a divorce and so I was careful about what I said out on the World Wide Web. I didn\u2019t want to cause him any grief or trouble that could be traced back to something I casually said. <\/p>\n
The job at Del Rey added another layer of thinking of \u201cDo I say this?\u201d Because there were times that I really wanted to says some things that might be misconstrued. Adding the Star Wars lock on what I can say and all the NDAs (None Disclosure Agreements) I have signed over the years or Peter has signed that I am a part of, there became a lot I can\u2019t talk about or when I can, I forget that I can now talk about it.<\/p>\n
Now I am married to Peter and have a child of my own which again changed the parameters of what I say and don\u2019t say. <\/p>\n
I can feel safe that what I have said over the years if someone went back and looked at it, I would get a job or whatever. Caroline can read it safely.<\/p>\n
I can say that I have always been honest out here on the Internet. If I typed it, I believe it when I typed it. If I found out I was wrong, I admitted it. I have held my tongue as others have libeled my husband and my friends. I don\u2019t break confidences. As much as I might want to say something or correct something, I don\u2019t. I learned that it doesn\u2019t really help and I do know what is the reality of the situation(s). <\/p>\n
So I continue to blog about my life and things I find interesting. And I hope others enjoy reading it. <\/p>\n
There are just times that I wish I could say some things but I know better so I don’t.<\/p>\n
I am grateful for the things I can talk about safely.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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