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RTBTCKI Peter is coming home today

Posted By on September 17, 2010

A few housekeeping things

Casa David is fine. The fierce storm did a number on the area but I walked the property and we have a couple of limbs down and a lot of leaves that had been stripped off the trees in the wind but that is about it.

If you have a complaint about me, please bring it to me and not pass it through a 3rd party in hopes that it gets to me. I don’t appreciate it. I know that you know how to get in touch with me. That is all I am going to say in the matter.

Now back to those Random Thoughts

Sorry Popfiend but I don’t have a good feeling about the Jets game this weekend nor am I really positive about the Giants game either.

Derek Jetter will become an actor after retiring from baseball.

Mets won and take on the Braves in a pretty important series for the Braves with the Mets able to play spoiler if they play well (which can be a pretty big if these days).

Interesting that the number of people in poverty went up while the number of millionaires and multi-millionaires also increased. I also think we need to rethink what the poverty line is because you can’t live on what they say you can live on at the poverty line unless you are in an area that is severely depressed and the price of goods reflects this.

Exercise in young children helps their brains to develop. I like that Caroline’s teachers are trying to make sure that the kids get sometime to run around outside without structure (recess) and that they recognize how important that time is to the children.

I am going to go join the Y next week I think. They have a family plan that I think will fit within my budget. Also they have children’s programs that I think Caroline would really enjoy participating in.

Looking forward to October where we have less travel than we do right now. Staying home is looking exciting at this point. But I knew the job was dangerous when I took it.

I am trying to finish up one project so I can go onto the next one. But this one is taking longer than it should. I’ll get it all done eventually.

There are a couple of other things spinning around in my brain pan but not quite ready for public consumption.

I am grateful that Caroline goes to a school where the teachers are worried about the kids’ achieving their best not the state enforced tests.

RTBTCKI (Peter is out of Town edition)

Posted By on September 15, 2010

Getting Caroline out of bed today was a bit of a struggle. She went to bed on time but just didn’t want to get up this morning. Once I got her moving and she had a video chat with her Daddy, she was much better and we got to the bus stop in plenty of time.

We got in two books that Peter wrote yesterday which gives me 5 more boxes to figure out where they need to do. We got in “The Spiderman Vault” and the Fables tie-in he did for Fable III. Both books look really cool. I am waiting to see my Ghostbuster comic which comes out later in October.

I haven’t changed my blend but my coffee has tasted a bit strange for the past two days. It is a bit more bitter than usual. The water out of the tap tastes fine and I cleaned all the parts I can clean yesterday but it is still off today.

I have a few things I need to do today and a couple I want to do. I am just trying to figure out where to start.

A piece of literary history is up on the auction block. You can own Harlan Ellison’s first typewriter. Details can be found here. Feel free to boost the signal on this because I would like to see it go to a good home. And yes the typewriter still works.

Well off to the first of a series of errands that need to be done today because tomorrow is trash day so I need to get the trash ready to go.

I am grateful for an understanding husband.

Tuesday Morning Quaterbacking Week 1 2010 Season

Posted By on September 14, 2010

Football was played over the weekend and we had two games last night.

This week a lot of upsets if you can have upsets in the first week. Also a lot of fantasy teams were decimated as player after player went down. This affected Eagles Fans I think more than anyone else.

Also it is interesting to see the new concussion rules in play. Along with some really wacka-doodle new rules about what you can and cannot do on the field. “Launching” yourself into someone is a new no-no. And one game was lost due to the player not understanding the control of ball rules. That one had to hurt a lot. I am surprised considering the number of pre-season games that the rules aren’t better known.

It was also interesting the number of “super bowl bound” teams that had a loss this week. They didn’t play particularly well in the pre-season but everyone chalked that up to saving players and arms for things that mattered. But most of the mistakes in the game were the same ones that were made in the preseason games.

In college football, there seems to be a great debate at which teams are worthy for bowl contention based on their schedule not on the number of wins. And if a worthy team is beaten by a not-worthy team, then does it become a not-worthy team automatically and thus other worthy teams games against them don’t count? The bowl system is FUBAR’d and has been ever since someone decided that we needed a clear “winner” for the season. And I don’t think it is going to get any better any time soon.

Baseball is still going. We are in September and have a pretty good idea who is going to the playoffs this year. Some races are still a little tight but most are pretty much a lock at this time. Braves vs. Yankees is my bet for the World Series.

I am grateful for the number of sports played at this time of year.

Some Final Thoughts on DragonCon 2010

Posted By on September 13, 2010

Yeah, after this I am putting DragonCon to bed for this year. Hard to believe that a week ago I was down in Atlanta having breakfast with Paul Dini and his lovely wife Misty Lee.

The Art Show
I honestly think that John and Anne Parise don’t get enough credit for what they do. And how much of their time they give each year in doing it. Nor does their staff get the kudos that they seriously deserve. The Art Show at DragonCon is a well-oiled machine that manages to get that many artists and pieces of great artwork in and out of that ballroom with peak efficiency including the sales from the print show to the patrons who bid and buy the artwork. This year, due to time constraints, I had to remove my art a little earlier than usual due to this year’s school calendar which started early for us. They had someone there who helped me close out my paperwork and I got out of there in great time.

Now if you have seen the DragonCon Art Show, you know how massive a beast it is. They make sure that they have people circulating the entire time the show is open and people in there during the night. They have people at the entrance and exits checking bags and sealing up cameras. This takes some pretty good people skills and the people they had were firm but polite all the way down the line.

So I am grateful to the Staff of the Art Show for all their hard work. It makes it one of the finest art shows in the world to be a part of.

The Costuming Track
Lee Cox took over this year and deserves many kudos for making a good track better. I did the Friday Night Workmanship contest which was fun and hard all at the same time. I did one panel this year and hope to do more next year (hint hint). Lee and his staff did yeoman’s work on making sure that they covered as many topics as there was interest. Some were hands on and others were demos or discussions but I think they had something for every type of costumer there. I plan to be a part of that track next year and Lee and the gang are why. If you haven’t checked out that track, I highly recommend it because there is so much you can learn in a weekend. We may be adding something next year but have to sort out the details before we can announce.

I am grateful to Lee, Aurora, and the rest of the gang for such a good time this year.

Young Adult
I didn’t see Bev the entire weekend but I did enjoy the panels I was on. If you have any interest in YA lit, this is the place to go and find out about what is out and what is coming out. You don’t have to be a YA to enjoy it either. There is a lot of young adult literature that 10 years ago would have been in the general fantasy, horror, or science fiction collection so don’t think it is just for little kids.

I am grateful for the panels I was on and sorry about the one I missed since it was my favorite to be on.

The Writer’s Track
I was on one panel on Monday and it was a lot of fun. Nancy does a great job of assembling a group of people who have a broad knowledge of a topic. We can either discuss with each other or with the room about the topics we are presented. And I have met some really swell people there that I have later had a chance to have longer conversation with.

I am grateful to Nancy and her staff for their southern hospitality and charm. Makes ever panel there fun.

The crowds
This year there was a new feature to the Marriott and Hyatt. There is now a habitrail that allows you to go directly from one hotel to another without having to go through the food court and it doesn’t have any steps. This did relieve the pressure on the food court entrance into the Hyatt, which could get rather sticky at times. However we had a bit of a bottleneck at the Marriott at the junction where if you went straight you went to the blood drive or several panel room, if you went left you went into the passage to the food court, or if you went right you went straight to the Hyatt. Along with this were the lines to get into the ballrooms in the Marriott and the area where everyone and his sister were taking pictures of the various costume groups. So getting from point A to point b means that you had to add 15 minutes to your travel time. My suggestion is basically what they do at Disney prior and during the parades which take up a chunk of walking space, have a designated area for foot traffic that is kept moving along the way so that you don’t suddenly slam into the backpack in front of you (whole other rant about knowing how wide you REALLY are with all your extras attached to your body in or out of costume). Also this prevents from you being stepped on by the person behind you who wasn’t expecting to stop while they were texting their buddies.

Overall the hotels and DragonCon Staff did what they could but with all the attendees and all the extra gawkers, it was not an easy job at any time of the day.

No Touchy
Here is one of probably the most difficult things that DragonCon has to deal with that most large convention (NYCC, SDCC, MegaCon, Star Wars Celebration etc.) don’t. DragonCon takes place within a number of hotels and not only do you have the DragonCon goers but you have other hotel guests and people who wandered in off the street to see the crazy costumes as well. The other conventions happen at convention centers and are controlled spaces that they rent and they can keep people out without a badge. Also most of the other convention don’t run 24/7. There may be a few activities after say 7pm but they really don’t go on all night at the convention center.

So you have a mix of people that are not all attending the convention. There is usually a football game on Saturday which draws which ever teams fans that are playing. There is, occasionally, just another convention that is going on at the same time although I have a feeling that the hotels are waving them off to make room for DragonCon. And there are the people who just happen to pick that weekend to be in Atlanta for whatever reason.

This year there were reports of inappropriate touch, rude comments, and physical assault. This was not only done by those not attending the convention but also by a number of folks who were attending the convention. It is not all from outside forces but also from some idiots within our ranks who were worse than the non-con attendees.

Kids, No means NO not maybe or ask again. No thank you means NO. Leave me alone means NO. Go away is most defiantly a big old NO. We may not be able to police those outside the convention but we can within our own ranks and we can protect our own without breaking the law (yes, someone does have an assault charge against them for trying to help someone they didn’t even know out of a sticky situation. I am figuring that the charges are going to drop since both security and the people originally being harassed are going to be there to say that these people were stopping a crime in progress).

There seems to be a Mardi Gras (some people are starting to call DragonCon Nerdy Gras) type atmosphere to the weekend which leads to some rather wrong headed thinking by the participants that needs to be changed. They see it as a weekend of safe drinking and debauchery which is not why a majority of us attended DragonCon but as usual it is the minority that is screwing it up for the majority. I managed to get myself out of the line of projectile vomit twice while walking back to my hotel room. I also, along with a friend, pulled a guy off of a girl who was rather plastered and found a D’Con security staff member to get her to wherever safely. I use to do security at various conventions so I know how hard that gig is esp. after a certain hour. I think the guy got his badge pulled but don’t know for sure.
Common sense seemed to go out the door after 7pm with a bunch of people. But then there are the harmless groups that are doing something slightly annoying (riding up and down in elevators in packs singing Lady Gaga songs) who were seriously rousted by security. Yeah, they were teens but none of them were drinking except maybe a Red Bull and they did get OFF the elevators if they saw that someone had a need to get into the elevator esp. for wheelchairs, scooters, canes, crutches, and strollers. It was controlled chaos rather than what else was going on the floors below that was detrimental to people’s welfare. It is a balance between the silly and the serious.

But NO TOUCHY means NO TOUCHY and that is one that we all have to make sure it is enforced. No one should be scared to go to DragonCon or feel unsafe at the convention at anytime. I don’t care what clever excuse you have for your behavior, it was wrong from the outset so knock it off.

I am grateful for all the fans that did behave. Y’all make this convention worth attending and participating in.

Back to Reality

Posted By on September 12, 2010

Tomorrow Caroline starts school again but now it will be a more regular rhythm. Peter had a business trip next week so that will be a little odd but overall we will be back to what we call normal around here. We do have a convention towards the end of September and then there is NYCC in October but this is pretty much normal around here.

Caroline and I went up to see Ariel yesterday. We brought along a good friend of Ariel’s so she could see the campus and Ariel’s dorm which is still in a state of flux after a week and a half. We brought up her Princess TV and a DVD player. Next I have to sent her a co-axial cable so she can plug in the cable to the TV. We watched part of a football game and the half-time show. I have a slight sunburn on one arm this morning.

So this week is about picking up the house from August and a couple of personal projects I have to get done in about two weeks. So there are deadlines but they are of my own making.

I am grateful for back to normal (or as normal as it gets around here).