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What my week has been like

Posted By on July 26, 2014

Well I am sitting at the Jacksonville Airport waiting for my plane to arrive so I can get home as I type this.

I have to say that JAX has been a dream to get through. I didn’t have to take off my shoes at security. It is amazing how that one little thing can make the whole process more human. The WiFi works well. Now let’s see if our plane can get here on time and leave on time. Then it will rank with best air travel ever.

I spent this week with my family being my mother, father, sister, brothers, sister-in-laws, and nieces. It was nice. We stayed at the family timeshare in St. Augustine.

The schedule was thus
Get up
Breakfast
Beach/Pool
Lunch
Nap
Beach/Pool
Dinner
Play a game or just talk
Go to bed

Rinse and Repeat

Now there were a few thunderstorms that did limit some of the activities in the afternoon but we still found things to do.

Wednesday some of us went to Disney World and some of us didn’t. Everyone had fun.

It was a week to regroup and get ready for the next set of tasks at hand.

It was also a week to reconnect with my family, which was very special to me.

I am grateful that I had this week.

Hello from St. Augustine!

Posted By on July 20, 2014

I am on vacation, if you care to leave a message please do so at the beep.
beeeeeeeeeeep

No I am really am on vacation. I didn’t bring art projects to work on. I did bring my sketch book and notebooks to sort out how I am going to tackle things on the other end.

St. Augustine is a touchstone for me. My family has been coming here for more than 40 years for one week to spend on a beach. I have a lot of memories about going to the Beach and I am glad I can share this with Caroline who was here last year on her own.

This year schedules worked out so I could participate again in the Beach Week. And schedules worked for everyone else on this side of the family so we are all down here. This will be the most concentrated time I have spent with my brothers and sister all together in probably about 25 years.

Caroline is having a blast. She had a cousin her own age and a toddler cousin to play with as well. The two girls have spent the day talking and playing together or just reading Foxtrot compilations on the same couch. Right now they are playing in the ocean with my sister-in-law.

I am taking the day to clear my brain. Just working on getting the roar down to white noise. Travel is done for a while so I can just be which I haven’t done in a while.

Peter is working on various projects he needs to write. This week gives him the house to himself for the first time in a rather long time. All he has to worry about is the cats and himself.

And we had one heck of the thunderstorm blow up and take over while I have been typing this with lighting so I am going to post and run.

I am grateful for vacation in all its myriad forms.

Getting Ready to Travel Again

Posted By on July 18, 2014

My mind is split between the here and travel time.

Tomorrow I am off to Florida to pick up Caroline and spend sometime with my family.

My brain is racing through all the things I need to do before I go and all the things that need happen once I am there.

There are three sets of things to think about.

Getting ready to travel.

Getting the house ready for Peter.

Getting ready for Dragon Con. (Yes, I do prep work before I do my panels thank you)

I have to deal with the cats, laundry, packing, and cleaning along with a couple of errands that need to be run before I leave.

I want to spend sometime gathering up some materials I am going to need for the work I am doing at the beach.

I also need to find some books to read at the beach.

Caroline has given me a few things she needs me to bring with me.

So I guess I will start with A and work my way to Z.

Just got to get the ol’ brain to focus the direction I need it to focus.

I am trying not to think that the weekend after we get back is Shoreleave.

RTBTCKI Mind Set

Posted By on July 17, 2014

It is kind of funny that when I get ramped up into puppet-land, my writing input goes to about zero. It seems like I can either build puppets or write but my brain is uncomfortable with trying to do both.

I think my brain needs to get over its bad self.

It was very quiet around here yesterday. With Caroline down in Florida and Peter off signing at Jim Hanley’s Universe, I had about 8 hours in the house without anyone in it besides me and the cats.

Did I dance around ala Tom Cruise? Nope, I cleaned. When I get everyone out of the house I can clean and organize because I can make a mess cleaning up and then cleaning it up. Got the living room and kitchen knocked into shape for Peter while I am out of town.

That and paint an eyeball for a puppet. Now that it’s dry, I can place it in the head and continue to move this one to completion.

Figgy still misses her human. She was sitting looking out the window about the time that Caroline comes home from school. After that time passed, she went upstairs and meowed outside Caroline’s door. She keeps looking for her human. I think when Caroline gets back, she is going to be a Velcro cat for a while.

My mind is moving a mile a minute trying to sort out what needs to be done before I leave on Saturday to go to Florida. I am spending next week with my family. This will be the most concentrated time we have had with each other in at least 20 years. It will be fun. Caroline is looking forward to spending time with her aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. It will be my first downtime since the stroke.

And that shows how far we have come since that fateful day at Disney. Considering what could have happened and what did happen, we know we are very lucky and very thankful for where we are today. Peter knows how lucky he is that he is back to pre-stroke form. I feel perfectly comfortable leaving him on his own in the house for a week.

I discovered Weird Al probably the way a lot of people my age did which was through the Dr. Demento radio program. He had a new album this past week entitled Mission Statement. To celebrate he is releasing a video a day based on the songs on the album for eight days. So far my favorite is Word Crimes. It appeals to my inner editor. He has still got it. Also if you haven’t seen him in concert and you like his brand of comedy, I encourage you to do so.

Some interesting phone calls have happened and will be happening over the next couple of days. Think good thoughts for us that once the dust settles, we’ll be better off than we are now. It is the usual might lead to nothing or might be really good kind of stuff that is a part of our lives.

Well back to puppet land.

I am grateful for opportunities but even more grateful when those pan out in our favor.

A Caroline-less House

Posted By on July 12, 2014

Or a preview of the future, which doesn’t seem that far away.

Caroline is with eldest daughter Shana in Florida for the week. She did this last summer and had such a great time that we decided to try it again this summer.

Not having Caroline around during the day because she is in school is one thing but this is something else entirely.

Milk is lasting longer in the fridge.

I wake up about the same time but have to remember to turn off the alarm because Caroline isn’t here to do it.

Toys stay where I put them. Understand she is good about picking up her toys after she is done playing with them just some time there are short cuts or toys that she is still playing with so they are still out at the end of the day.

Less laundry.

Filtered water last longer.

Conversations are different. I miss my Caroline dream report or the strange question of the day.

And there is just the lack of her presence in the house. It is like we have to rebalance the energy for her absence.

Fewer Facebook entries (not necessarily a bad thing).

Her cat, Fig, is sticking to me like Velcro. Also Figgy keeps checking the front door and her bedroom door to see if Caroline emerges.

Less food to prepare at meal times.

No Caroline hugs or kisses.

I miss having her around but I know she is having fun. This is a good thing for her to do at her age.

I am grateful that Caroline does have these opportunities.