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Pretty Day, Sunny Sky

Posted By on May 11, 2019

Pretty day
Sunny sky
Lovely pictures
Dance in your eyes
It all seems so right
It all seems so rare

-Couldn’t we ride by Joe Raposo from the Great Muppet Caper

This is a lovely day. The sky is blue with light puffy clouds rolling by. The breeze keeps it from being too warm but it is not too cold either.

The kind of day that makes one feel good to be alive.

Pollen count is reducing too which had led to much rejoicing in our house.

The cats are picking their nap spots based on either sunshine or breeze but all are looking lazy and comfortable and happy.

All in all a beautiful day. 

Caroline and I already have time carved out for a walk and talk.

It is the kind of day where one feels they can do anything and everything.

It is the kind of day where people go to plant nurseries and get lots of new vegetation for their lawns that they will plant and then hope that this year it all works out for them. 

For me I am thinking cat boxes and a few lawn chores along with laundry.

Doesn’t sound exciting but on this sort of day that I need to do to get to tomorrow and Mother’s Day where Peter and Caroline are taking me to see Cirque for the first time in a number of years. Plus it is suppose to rain tomorrow.

But right now I am enjoying the breeze and the sunlight and the puffy clouds with all the potential they hold for today and the rest of the year.

I am grateful for these sorts of days that remind me of what can be.

Georgia On My Mind

Posted By on May 10, 2019

I moved to Georgia when I was six. My father got a job at Georgia Tech so we made our home in the Druid Hills area of Atlanta where the schools were decent. My high school could have sung “We are the World” since many of the kids were related to people either working or attending Emory University.

There are two Georgia’s really. There is Atlanta where you would be hard pressed to find someone who was actually born there rather than moved there and the rest of Georgia.

My first observations of overt racism happened in Georgia just outside of Atlanta.

Any forward progress has been made with a lot of effort and there always seems to be the point where Georgia takes like 20 steps back.

There was the battle of the flag that from 1956 to 2001, it had the confederate stars and bars in reaction to the civil right movement. 2001 to 2003 was the compromise flag that declared the flags at the bottom as Georgia’s history, which still included the confederate flag.

Then there was the adoption law that would cut out certain people from being able to adopt children in Georgia. That one died on the vine when the film industry threatened to leave the state for another state that didn’t have a version of the asinine legislations.

There was the governor’s election that was so crooked, it made other voter suppression group have to up their game. I met Stacey Abrams totally by accident at DragonCon where she was campaigning and being a big ol’ fan. I actually heard her squee when she met someone there that she admired.  I liked her energy and her platform. Unfortunately the white male who was the chairman of voter registration was also running and the deck was continuously being stacked against her. 

Now we have the heartbeat bill that is going to screw Georgia businesses over good without spit or pity.

Apparently the Georgia Legislation did not learn from North Carolina and the stupid bathroom bill that killed the thriving economy especially in the film and television industry but also the hotel industry, the restaurant industry, and a lot of other businesses along the way.

Disney warned Georgia that if the bill passed, they would be taking their business elsewhere. This would include the next phase of the Marvel films. With the completion of the Avengers Saga, they have the time to pick up and move before starting the next set of films. This personally affects a bunch of my friends who have had steady work for years now because of Marvel Studios. They will have to move if they want to continue when Disney moves the offices.

North Carolina lost the NCAA tournament but that was just the tip of a 3.76 Billion Dollar iceberg that it ran into. They are still trying to convince people to come back to North Carolina and the economy still hasn’t recovered.

Georgia is headed towards the same ice-burg. Conferences will pull out. People will not visit so fewer tourists.

I am already seeing this effect as various friends who I always see at DragonCon are cancelling their plans to attend and are looking for another conventions to go to instead. That’s a big deal because DragonCon has been their vacation time for years but they cannot support a state with such a bill especially when you start reading the fine print within the bill making it a felony to go to another state for any gynecological needs as well as the person(s) who transport them.

But the justice system will strike this down! I hear others say. It is getting harder and harder to believe that. The damage has been done.

And this is moving fast. Maybe some of it is kneejerk but that can still kill a booming economy.

And it is not just going to affect Atlanta. There is going to be an economic backlash through out the state. I don’t think the citizens of Georgia outside Atlanta realize how much until it will hit their areas in ways that they cannot even imagine.

I am grateful for sensible people who live in Georgia.

Keeping this going if anyone is reading

Posted By on May 9, 2019

I didn’t realize that I hadn’t put up an entry for the day until I went to check on something in the archives. 

Sure we are only nine days into the month but I am trying to post something each day.

Today I got one project I have been rolling around in my head for a while done. It took less time than I thought it would and it looks good.

Tomorrow I work on the next one and see if I can get a handle on how long this is going to take me.

Let’s see what happens to change this plan.

I am grateful when things figure out correctly.

Smile

Posted By on May 8, 2019

(Just a heads up. I am probably not at my best. I am running on about three hours sleep due to a variety of reasons but this won’t leave my head)

Yesterday Caroline needed to get some materials for her still life project into the Art Room, which was locked. She went to an adult and asked for help. The adult knew her and that she was an art student so her wish to put a bag in the room was not unusual. They agreed to help her but she needed to do something for them and then they asked her to smile. Caroline did so but was not happy about the whole exchange.

“I am not unhappy but everyone keeps asking me to smile,” she said, “I find that annoying.”

I can sympathize with her because this is something I have heard most of my life too.

“If you smile, you would look prettier.”

“It takes more muscles to smile than to frown.”

“Why do you look mad all the time? You know if you smiled once and a while, you would look less harsh.”

“Smile, you have so much going for you.” Or “What do you have to frown about?”

“Why so serious?” (Yes even before Batman I heard this often).

I have what my sister in law called Resting Bìŧçh Face as does she as does Caroline. We even have a card she created to explain why we are not smiling all the time. Caroline needs to laminate hers because she has used it so often.

I am not sad or angry or mad. This is just how my face looks. I have a severe face. It doesn’t mean that I am less happy than the person next to me just that my face seems to be in perma-frown.

I have used it to my advantage because it tends to cut through the bull crap pretty fast and they can tell I am not buying what they are selling.

If you want to know what I am really feeling, it is in my eyes not my mouth. Always have been. Peter knows this. He looks into my eyes and sees me with all my emotions. It is one of the many reasons I love him.

When I am forced to smile, it tends to be a death-head grimace rather than any true feeling. And you wonder why I tend to stay out of photos.

The upside is that when I do smile or laugh, it is totally honest. I have never been able to fake a laugh or a giggle and my hat is off to those who can.

Forcing people to smile when they don’t feel like it doesn’t seem to have anything to do with them and more to do with those who are insisting on the smile. It makes them feel better in some strange way that I will probably never understand.

Caroline says that anytime someone says, “smile” to her, she flashes back on the end of the first season of Jessica Jones when Jessica dispatches the Purple Man who keeps insisting that she smile through out the season. I have to say that does make me honestly smile.

I am grateful for honest smiles.

Crafty Tuesday Reset Regroup Step Back

Posted By on May 7, 2019

I made some hard decisions this week regarding puppets and what can get done in the time available before various dates pass me by.

I wish I could create all the ideas in my head but I am limited by the number of hours in the day and everything else that needs to be done.

In a perfect world I could but this is reality not an alternate timeline.

So I am stepping back and regrouping for what can be done and what I need to finish this year.

I hope to have a plan in place by next Tuesday.

I am grateful for all the weird ideas that come through my head.